It is rather interesting in my previous post where I mentioned how one Singaporean woman becomes so desperate that she had to go to the media to ask them to help her arranged for a husband. I find it even more interesting to see what kind of men would take up that challenge.
I do know a few people who ended up with foreign wives and has been living happily ever since. However, it must be said the succesful one tends to come from Indonesia and Vietnam. China chinese tend to have a lot more problems especially when they come over to Malaysia. Why is that so? Are these men losers in real life or the women in both countries are the problem?
Frankly speaking the problem is more evident in the island city compared with Malaysia. For now, most Malaysian men are happy with Malaysian girls. But I do see that there is a small but increasing trend where Malaysian men will not choose local girls anymore. But let’s focus on Singapore and use that example to explain the growing “pain in the ass” group of women in Malaysia. It may sound sexist and I do know some may not be happy with what I have to say, but if you really stop and think, it does make sense.
Singaporean girls tend to want EVERYTHING. Yes Everything! They want your car, your condo, your cash, your country club membership and if possible even your company (ie. career). They would say they are equal in everything so the need to have a say in everything you do. Yet your money is theirs and their own money is for them to keep. In a less polite way, shadowfox summarise the whole situation (though not 100% I agree but majority of it, yes).
They would nag at you if you come home late. They would torture you if you stared at another girl for more than 0.01second. They will empty your wallet, if there is a sales. Yes very ferocious. I have been lucky to meet my wife who had been more of a supporting wife and career woman (at the same time). But she too knows the horror stories of other females who would curse and insist that their guys have a lot of problems even though they are model husband. But yet it is those guys that do give guys a bad name. They set the wrong standard and a foolish one I might add.
Girls, you have to pick. You may want to be a strong headed woman with a career and yet a loving mother and wife. It is possible. But do not over demand in return. Guys are humans as well. I have seen a lot of relationships failed and end in divorce when the girl asks too much of the guy. If only they could stop and think for a moment that they are asking for the sky.
A few relationships which I have seen friends with Vietnamese wives do seems stable. They come from the harsher side of life so living comfortably in Malaysia is almost like a secured passport for both herself and her family back home. Though there are communication problems, but it seems ultimately that they knew they are different so a lot more tolerable with one another.
I am not saying foreign marriages are the best as there are many succesful local marriages but it should be noted that with the advent of feministic female, the chances of divorce are on the rise.
I think feminists take things too seriously.
Equality can be reached with mutual understanding of the needs of both parties in a relationship.
And unless they were brainwashed, I’d say men who marry feminists and then complain about them are lacking common sense.
It’s true. I just dumped a girl who suddenly wanted pocket money from me. Bitch. We’re not even married.
And I spent so much on her already. Dumped her ass right away.
I am interested to have a Polish GF.
polish girls are living in not so rich country but they are quite humble and nice, compare to other parts of europe. off topic pulak.
Fat4,
are you having a grudge towards singaporean? sorry to sound like that laa… just that i see u hit them sometimes.
anyways, i dont like demanding women, esp when they are interested in money more than love.
dream on relax.
Poland has higher GDP per capita than Malaysia. You might want to lower your standards to Azerbaijan or Kazakhstan or Iran or Palestine or Afghanistan.
I don’t think we should blame feminism. Blame their materialistic lifestyle. Feminists take what’s rightfully theirs - things like working hard for management positions, taking charge of their own financial future, not taking shit when their partners beat them. Materialists are just plain greedy - they finish up what’s theirs and take their partner’s money too…
shag
i am not like you who measure people with money
I measure people with first hand knowledge.
go ahead if you want people from rich countries.
but dont start insulting people esp. you havent been to poland yet.
anyways, I compared poland with western europe, not Malaysia ^_^
bodicea: agree with the first two sentences. I think men who married feminist tend to be the “coward” type who wouldn’t hold a candle when it comes to different opinion. these guys are usually reserved and quiet, hiding behind. They are not bad guys actually, just that they are bullied so much that they have totally forgotten what freedom is.
wasaw: I would have thought you are over 40s? am i wrong? or have i got you mixed up with another person? ehehe
relax: I do have some indifferences with singaporeans. Not easy for me coz I am a true blue Johor Bahru person. But it seems that I don’t hate them as in a person but rather as a society. Their society messed them up. Again that is very subjective as it is my own personal opinion.
Polish girls are okay. But polish themselves do not integrate well with asians unfortunately, so you may need to spend a bit more time to convince a polish girl.
Shag: It is true with the recent opening of the central and eastern european block. Their economy has grown so much.
nice girl: agreed to a certain extent but feminism has created a new found reason for guys not to like girls.
relax: i think shag is trying to say polish girl has a higher living standards than Malaysians and not the other way round.